UAFCs and CAFCs
Dec. 11, 2007 11:08 PM - [ post comment ]
I've noticed a startling insight regarding the type of AFCs that come into pickup.
Before I say this, let's say, that there are 2 types of AFCs that come into the community:
-The Clueless (CAFC) -The Unfortunate (UAFC)
The clueless AFCs are the guys who should have no problem understanding pick up, since all they were in life were lost sheep. These guys consist of the guys who dont know how they got laid in the first place, guys who've had relationships out of luck, and guys who seemed to not know why women acted the way they did.
The Unfortunate AFCs are the guys who suffered in life, usually in the forum of bullying and traumatization. These guys have the same learning speed as the clueless, but have much more to work for. It's not that it's meant to be unfair, but most guys who are UAFCs have been wronged by most AMOGs and life circumstances. UAFCs include bullied people, the poor, the struggling, the hard-workers who feel they're not appreciated, and those who find it hard to suffer.
I, myself, was a UAFC, who became a PUA through a maddening, yet growth-filled time of trials, fun, discovery, and sadness.
This article is for the UAFCs here. If you are a CAFC, there should be no excuse for Pick up not to work for you immediately, unless your lazy.
Now, to the point:
UAFCs, it took me time to find out what you need to emphasize on more than the CAFCs. And here it is:
"Present perfect affirmations".
Guys, I'm telling you, affirmations are what makes the difference between the loser and the winner.
I know most of you believe that regular affirmations are bullshit (I am the man, I am the alpha male of the group, etc...).
They work...with a catch.
It is true that, at the moment, you might not be king Alpha, or the best thing in the universe.
Let's be honest: We're not. There is ALWAYS someone greater than us.
BUT, one thing that we can agree on is that we ARE BECOMING alpha males and the best things in the universe.
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ARE BECOMING = Present Perfect tense!
You can belive that you are becoming an Alpha male, because everything takes time.
You're unconscious isn't stupid. It can tell when your bullshitting and being honest.
But, it cant tell the future. Therefore, by saying that you are becoming greater and mightier, you are programming your Subconscious more effectively than just "Oh yea I am king of the alpha male...Wait, this is BS."
Get my drift.
Here's some you can use now:
"I am becoming more confident and alpha" "I am growing more aware and tactful" "I am feeling happier and stronger!" "I am confident in my dick size"
etc etc...
CAFCs must use this technique as well, but it is 1000000x more urgent for the UAFCs, as without it, pessimism takes over.
hope this helped.
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