Hey guys, I recently posted a new article on my blog on the subject of daygame.  I
frequently get questions on this, and have recently realized what works like gold
for me in daytime approaches, which I reveal in the post. 

Check it out and let me know what you think...

SuperchargedGame.com

-Dane

I read an article by Scot McKay based around meeting women in the grocery store (Google it you lazy bastards) and thought I'd throw out a few things I use.

Everything posted has been field testing numerous times...

*Get in line behind her.  If you happen to be in the express lane then accuse her of cheating by having more then the allotted number of items.  If she doesn't actually have more then get creative - count a carton of eggs as 12 items, etc.  Tell her you're going to snitch her out and she's going to be in trouble.

*If you're in line behind her and can't use what's above then pick something out of her cart that you really like and make a big deal out of it.  Be more excited about the item then you are about her.  Exclaim how much you love Honey Buns or whatever it is, and go into detail about that item, tell a story about it, or pretend like you are stealing them out of her cart. Inversely, you can push her away or disqualify by finding something nasty in her cart and busting on her for eating shitty stuff.

*Again you're behind her in line.  Put your groceries on the checkout but don't put the little divider - just leave a little blank spot between yours and hers.  When the cashier is done ringing hers and starts ringing yours she will stop him/her.  When she does say something along the lines of "No, no, it's too late, just go ahead and ring them up together, she'll pay for 'em".  Then thank her.  She'll usually laugh and be open to chatting.  If the cashier doesn't start to ring yours up to but instead either asks or just stops when they get to yours then you can say "Just go ahead and ring them all up, she'll cover it".

*This sounds absurd but I've used it quite a few times and love it.  See a woman with alcohol in her cart?  Approach her and tell her you are an undercover store employee and that you're doing preemptive ID checks for alcohol, and that you don't think she's old enough to purchase it.  Get a little absurd with it, women buy into it.  Make her show you ID if you want.  If she does and is having fun or digging it then accuse her of showing you a fake ID, explain how you need two more proofs of identification, or explain how in order to investigate further you're going to need to meet up tomorrow/get her number/nail her in the bathroom....

*Hot woman have her cart in the middle of the aisle where you can't or can barely squeeze by?  I usually stop, give her a serious look, and in an overly serious exaggerated way I'll throw up my hands, say something like "God, just take up the whole aisle", then roll my eyes, shake my head, and sigh loudly.  This obviously has to be done so over-the-top that they know you're joking.  Always gets a laugh and from here you can usually start a convo pretty easy.

*Accuse her of being stoned if she has a lot of junk food - chips, cereal, pizza rolls, etc.  Try to buy drugs from her.

These next two are my favorites, they get used a lot....

*If a woman stops by you to look or grab something from the shelf, move a little closer to her (or if she's looking at something you can stop by her and act like you're looking in the same area).  After a few seconds turn your head towards her and say "Am I in your way?"  To which she'll almost always respond "No, you're fine".  You then step aside so that you're basically right in front of her, blocking her view (with your back to her, you're still going to be looking on the shelf).  Then say "How about now?".  Game on.

*Do anything (including that last one directly above) to get her to say "You're fine" - most of the time you can do this if she's looking for something near you and you say "oh excuse me" and step aside, or if your cart is towards the middle of the aisle and as she gets close you move it just out of the way enough for her to get by, again saying "Oh, sorry, excuse me".  She'll reply "You're fine".  This is an invitation for all kinds of cocky funny remarks, such as looking at her and saying "Thanks, you're pretty cute yourself" or "I think so too but that's just my ego talking" or "I'm fine huh?  Are you trying to pick me up?  Better try a little harder".  You can really take this a lot of different directions.  Listen for this, I never realized how often women say "you're fine" until I starting spinning off of it.

And an added bonus:

*Credit to David Wygant for this one - when she's in the frozen foods section, approach and in the condensation on the freezer door draw a tic-tac-toe board.  Put an X somewhere on there, then look at her, motion, and say "your turn",  Man this is awesome...

That's it for now.  Remember, think in terms of the situation and environment and your possibilities are limitless...

-Dane

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I recently changed my site to a blog format for the sake of simplicity.  I also put up a 2-part post with vocal exercises to help you develop a strong, resonant voice.  Check it out:

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On my site I started an article based off of reader email asking me what I believe to be the 5 most important attributes for a man to have to be successful with women.  It ended up being a 2-parter, and I've just uploaded the rest of the article.  Read it at

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-Dane

Reposted from the Kansas City Forum

So you've all heard the little analogy about men being a lightswitch and women being a volume knob. This is pretty much true. While sexual tension can be fun for us guys, we, ultimately, don't need it. We can go from zero to sex instantly. Women, on the other hand, generally need to be gradually turned up.

Something a lot of guys don't think of is that this is also true AFTER sex. That volume knob should be gradually turned back down.

When I'm with a girl I ALWAYS try to last longer then her, in her "sexual timeframe". See, to a man sex begins when you put it in her and ends when you get off. To a woman, however, sex begins MUCH sooner - think verbal foreplay, think of the unspoken sexual tension - a few hours before sex. And, for them, it doesn't end when the guy gets off. They want that cool down.

Basically I do the same as I do during foreplay, minus the oral, and in reverse. I slow it down and do it more relaxed. Keeping my bedroom eyes and maintaining good eye contact, occassionally looking at her body and slightly smiling, I gently run my fingers all over her body as I kiss her stomach, making my way up to her breasts, which I'm very gentle with (remember I'm cooling her down here), then her neck and finally a little kissing on the lips. I then tell her something about her that I really liked, something that really stood out. Something genuine. After all, sex is the ultimate level of compliance, I have do give her something positive for that (other then, of course, the privilage of being with me). The whole process can take just a minute or a couple of minutes, depending on how sensual you want to be...

The point of posting this however has nothing to do with the above technique or it's effects. Rather, it's what I noticed about my mentality, what runs through my head as I do this.

While I look all cool and smooth on the outside, and while I milk this Don Juan soft touch and kisses afterplay stuff (solidifying my place as "best" or at least "most memorable lover"), something much different is going on in my head. I have to work to focus on the task at hand. Remember, I'm a light switch, as soon as I get off the switch is flipped.

I start my "afterplay" about 10 seconds after I get off, and here's what I notice...

10 seconds after I get off, I can look at her and see the emotions going through her.

10 seconds after I get off I can see her looking into my eyes with a calm passion.

10 seconds after I get off I see her glowing.

10 seconds after I get off I can tell she is still drifting back from euphoria.

10 seconds after I get off I see her coming from a state of ecstacy, into one of peace and tranquility.

And 10 seconds after I get off, what goes through my head?

"Man, biscuits and gravy sounds fucking good right now"

-Dane

Reposted from the Kansas City Google Group

I love this and do it with every woman. If you can get a woman to
enter your personal space, rather then you entering hers (which is
common with escalation), then you will break through a lot of barriers
- psychologically SHE stepped into YOUR space, and she wouldn't do
that just for any guy, right? Funny thing is, this works even if you
make her do it.

Here's what I do. First observe something about someone around you
that you can joke about. My last time there was a guy at the pool
table next to ours with huge muttenchop sideburns. This was what I
chose. Now lean back against something and just chat. Whenever she
gets within arm's reach, look her deep in the eyes, you can get into a
semi-seductive state here if you want, and say "You know what I wanna
do?"


Now, as you are finishing this sentence, confidently reach out and
grab her hips or waist and gently PULL HER close to you, the closer
the better. This is vital - you don't move towards her, you move her
to you, so that she is entering your space. Move your face next to
hers and slowly whisper into her ear whatever your observation was.
Example: the sideburn guy from above - I pulled her in and whisper "I
wanna grow some hugeass sideburns like this guy".


After you say this, gently push her away and continue on the topic. I
continued with something like "that would be awesome. What do you
think, could I pull it off?"


One key here is to not make it look like you're teasing. Don't push
her away and give a sly smile like "haha you thought I was gonna say
something dirty or kiss ya". Fuck that. BE CASUAL ABOUT IT AND ACT
LIKE IT WAS NOTHING.


It'll happen fast, but when you say "Know what I wanna do" and pull
her towards you she immediately thinks you're about to say something
sexual. Then you don't, and to further it you push her away. Now
she's thinking about sex, associating it with you, and since you
DIDN'T give her what she expected, but rather pushed her away, she
suddenly starts to want it. Also she entered your personal space -
she stepped into you, and in her head that says a lot. Trust me,
she'll play this over and over to herself...

-Dane

Repost from the Kansas City PUA Google Group

As you all know, most of the time kino should be a progression, a
natural escalation from an innocent first touch all the way through
sex. So what do you do when you come across that rare HB that is non-
receptive to your touch early on? I've only had this happen twice, I
attempt to escalate and she goes cold, so I stop. I step back and
drop all kino and start again, but again am stopped at the same
point. Both girls ended up being fairly shy and needed lots of
comfort before I could escalate to sex, but I used the same method to
get both of them used to touching and being touched...

When you're out, just casually bend over and untie her shoe. Give a
sly smile and just proceed what you were doing. A little bit later,
20-30 mins, do it again. Wait until you've got her isolated, your
house or her house or at least away from a crowd to do it a third time
- this time she will likely go for yours. This is where the little
struggle begins. You can do this little game spontaneously throughout
the day and turn it into a full-blown wrestling match if you
want...and there you go. You took her from unresponsive physically to
rolling on the ground and breathing heavy with you just by acting like
a little 3rd grader....


If anyone else has similar methods for those rare less-then-receptive
females let's hear 'em...


*This also works with pillow fights - make sure to take her pillow so she has to wrestle you to get it back (or let her take yours!)

-Dane