Ever meet a girl and know she is somewhat amazing, or just cant believe you are with her !Ever think that things can be moving very fast right under your own nose !Have ever had the best time of your life and know your GAME was also tight ?Well I have been there a few times my self and I know first hand its hard to understand but you really got to control your  LOCKING IN " modes ...!What I mean is that you can actually creep that girl out just by being there at arms reach, or at the end of the other line of hers..!! ( I mean the phone )..Thats fuken right ! Whaaa !The phone is your enemy in the start of any dating .. Your Game , Rapport, and even sex a few times with her means shit , if you are always around..Keep busy or have other girls to call !! Just dont call her all the time.. *** This is how you should act when you just meet a girl, and how the situation should be handled for the first month..1st) Dont call everyday unless she calls you ..2nd) If you do call just leave one message by saying ; " Hey, just checking in, just seeing whats going on, Whats up ! ""...( hang up the phone & if she doesnt call you back) then she has met a new guy !! or you creep her out !!! (trust issues ) headcase & move on.. 3rd) Not every girl is trying to " LOCK YOU DOWN " to be her boyfriend ! So you should never show you are needy, even if she is the best and sucks that cock like its the end of the world !! 4th) Give it about 4 weeks ... and take things slow.. always make it look like she is #2 on your " TO DO LIST ""... Try not to move to fast into the boyfriend/girlfriend zone !! ( youll creep her out )...

To actually get a real boost to your GAME,You should feel that picking up woman is 2nd , and just getting noticed is the best business card to hand out...So many time I have gone back a week later to the same bar , and have had women approach me just for that reason...Trust me, to be a the popular face in the crowed is a better place to be than next in line...Think about it .... PLAYA'S ...

Any one person can create a web page or group site and call themselves a Guru.. Any one person just like my self can start there own Method . It is your mind that has to decide on what is real and what is a cash grab. It is up to you to know the difference between " Genuine " or " Script ".. There is no such thing as a magic method or spell.. Choose wisely and be careful not to mix methods or not to be your original self. Remember that PUA is like playing the game of Hockey ! ( Law of Averages ) every time you shoot at the net , eventually the puck will find it's way in ..... Believe that there is always a more simple way around this Method of yours. That is the WAY ".....

Having a high sex drive can make your self feel a little more attractive. Feeling attractive in a slightly different way,than your normal self is good energy. Not only would be noticing a difference in your body language, but your Charisma level will also feel more confident. Having a higher sex drive can make one feel a little more of a worker than a lazy bone . I am not saying to force " Blue Balls " or make your self sick in any way ! I am suggesting the idea of building a " Sexual Energy " that only woman can sense - because it is a natural and animal instinct that was given to them. Now ! this dose not mean you will have some kind of " Super Pheromone " or if you stand by them and let the ladies take a" wiff " of you, they will fall on your lap. No ! this will only help a energy that they will notice subconsciously about you when you speak to them. Almost like a " Ora " or your wearing a really nice pair of sunglasses and they have too see your eyes .. To be a PLAYER - it is very important to display a sexual energy wile you converse naturally in a proper manner.PLAYERS believe in being comfortable and confident in them selves .. PLAYERS also know how to display a body language that most AFC's wish to possess . Secret is that if you calculate " 3 Days " before you hit the Clubs or social gathering, you have to promise yourself you will not " Masturbate " until the 3rd night ends.. Not only would this give you a better orgasm, but it will also give something to think about after you have met woman that night. When you can control your energy and tension, you can learn quicker and more effectively in this " State of Mind ".. Feeling that the problem is you seeing it in a hole new way and you play this indifference perfectly good, than you can see your faults for what they are.. Don't ever take this personal ! You really want to find a way to control your attractiveness . " All to gain & nothing to lose ".. Remember this , " Depending on where the girl is in her life, reflects on you in hers ".. Don't sweat it ! this is a PLAYERS way of learning control . It is very unhealthy for you to stress and think PUA 24/7 . Only think 3 days before you plan to go out. And I mean only " Think About It " ..! Stressing 24/7 is just a "Self Infliction " of abuse, and thats just going to make AFC actions win your hart over.. Now ! if you can visualize yourself trying this exercise and believing that actions speak louder than words, than you will be on a better path of feeling more ATTRACTIVE..

Have fun and meet people. Learning how to mingle and socialize is a real amazing trait to have in the PU Arts. You have to stop wondering what is the outcome of picking up woman."" If you don't stress about getting the Pussy, then you'll get the Pussy ! ". The reason why most men have bad Game is because they pursue woman too much. STOP with the multiple routine stacks, and all that mix style methods. Just relax !. Women should be coming after you.. Respect the fact that all woman know how to be " Hit On ", and try and understand they don't know the first thing about earning the right to pick a man up.. Just try learning how to not hit on woman so much and try learning how to be a good listener, & you'll see that RAPPORT is the " Secret Pussy Picker Upper " ....

(VIBE)=Relaxed & Confident. (Body Language)=No hands in pockets, don't be the one who always stands around, "AFC". You have to play the part of a relaxed and confident man.You have to believe you can act like you are a charismatic person who will socially be polite and assertive before you even open your "Fucken " mouth.. (PARTY)=Being comfortable within yourself. (Success)= Why others look at you, and wonder why they are not with you. (SHIT)= Don't go out, if you don't want to have a good time. People will notice AFC actions, & you will be treated as the " SHIT " lying on the floor to walk around !(DRESS)= You can be dressed to the 9's, but if you don't display a happy & genuine vibe, you will be noticed. (PEACOCK)= This is a way to stand out from the rest of the crowed.(GAME)= Stay on top of your social behavior and habits at all time. (KISS)= Keep it simple stupid. (OPENERS)= One or two, no more.."Simplicity", you only need to start a conversation and that's it ! This is your foot in the door and nothing else. There is no such thing as a " Magic Opener ". (BANTER)= Learn this! very " Fucken " important. (ROUTINES)= Don't be scriptural, women can smell a " Bullshitter" and love to take washroom brakes. You have to control your body language and the way you present yourself. Respect the opposition, and learn how to be a good listener.(MINGLE)= Always look for a reason, and you will be noticed as charismatic.....This is "GENUINE" this a " WAY "...

In any start of conversation,you have to believe in the idea of a physical connection.When you approach a woman and open her with a line, you have to make sure you have '"Eye Contact "".. This is a (physical connection) a start .....Having the person you are conversing with relaxed, & confident in you, knowing that you are polite, mature, & willing to show interest .! Shortly after all of this, while being in a talkative state and displaying good "VIBE", good "" Body Language "", you can escalate after (Kino)...........By having her focused on you ""Socially"" !!VIBE ÷ CONNECTION ÷ RAPPORT = SOCIAL INTRIGUE ..That's it for now, continued soon...Comment if you want?? Peace ....

1st )))The purpose too all of the basics I mentioned in the last post (The Way) is that everyone talks about outer & inner Game. My most important thought on how you will get an answer in (Social First) Self Believe is this; "HABITS + BEHAVIOR". If you give yourself some time to change your habits and behavior, then you can learn very quickly about what is busting your anxiety and social skills.In my method (The Way) I call this "GENUINE" no such thing as inner or outer game.Once you can learn this way of yourself you will automatically become confident. That's Genuine !!The solution is not "Mix Matching"styles or spending 365 days reading Pickup. It's about belief in your self and what you want in life.Pickup means to "Pickup a New Life"!!

The most important focus one inspired artist must understand is " Simplicity". Try and make a habit of looking at women and what they do as a simple piece of art. Try to believe that life is too short to be stressing over small things and view your life as if it's the first day you were born. Make your days full of living like it's the last day on earth. Picture your self in this piece of art you look at and focus on the frame as the border and the girl and you as the main subject and a fun life with her as your theme.It's good for your health to dream, because it's dreams that make us who we are. Before you can simply create a intimate connection with a woman you have to believe that you are a intimate person also. Learn how to be social first, and charismatic 2nd. This is a big responsibility and seducing a woman is responsible and respectful.

This is a continuation of my last 3 post.3 second rule,Transition,& Think about it..(Read the all of them before this one)(Comment if you want))?Open,make the Transition to build the attraction .The best way of setting the pace for attraction building is "Banter"".÷"Rapport""..My belief on getting the girl 20% opener 30% Banter 45% Rapport 5% Comfort.This should be planned and calculated all the time.If you can't have a girl with in 5 min, than (Roll off))..Start with the Idea that the first 3 min is for the attraction setting and the last 2 min is for Rapport.It is in the utmost importance that you calibrate Banter to Rapport.You want to control the emotional state of the vibe and the woman..If you can control the way you can share an emotional experience with her and make her feel good, then the comfort level has been built 300 x faster for a connection.!!So' remembering that after having fun with the introduction, and Banter for the first 3 min into attraction building. You got to "Shift Energy "!!In the years I've been doing this and watching my friends , I have noticed that conversation goes "Sour".This is why Rapport is so important . This will start a hole new way of conversing for a wile and then going back to having fun."Power of Rapport""(( TIP ))'Who are you or what's your story ?" Are you from Hamilton ?"So ! you grew up in Oakville ."Okay ! " What was it like growing up in Oakville ??ETC........And you go from there..Simple , smooth, and no one liners back and forth or " Brain Fart Freeze Out"If you can find out something unique about her then she can find out something unique about you.This is going to let the woman think about you for the rest of the night and well into the next day..Fun, smart, charming, interesting, & playful is 5 different emotions you have just controlled in 5 min.Controlling moods is a way to seduction .Best of luck to you all !!And I'll bet you all this can't be argued ...Peace............

Respect to all,I was just thinking to my self the other day, about how some of the articles,blogs,post etc..I read is un useful to the NEWBIES..Think about it !!Over the years I have read some really fucked up shiat that can be more harmful than good..I noticed there are some of these so called "key board Gurus " who give advise to the new guys and probably dont really have any experience in the field ..One of the most frequent topics are openers..Openers arent going to get you anywhere if you dont know how transition works!!There is more too pickup than a stupid line or two..Then you hear of these "Gurus " talking shit about different styles and mashing it all together."What the Fuck " are you thinking ???"Mix Matching " Styles is the last thing you want to do..Telling someone its okay to copy Teacher A,B,C is going too confuse the new guy and make it discouraging for him..Stick to "ONE STYLE" and leave it at that..ex; :(MYSTERY). - ;( A) ...(TIP) ; Teach them how to be Social First Teach them how to build attraction and understand it Tell them after knowing this the rest is Magic...If I was asked I would start by telling them ::;" Simplicity is the best composition of Attraction...."I feel for ya Newbies !!

Approach and chat is not really a big fear..People converse some how, one way or another,They have to if they need to get some where in their everyday lives!!I have just sat back today and asked my self why this is, and why is fear a big factor in approach?(Beauty) (Sexy) ( Very attractive women)!"Yep""", this is the reason to fear..Fine" thats all good but I remember a time that I was never afraid of any one..Its only the days and times when I had bad experiences growing up that I socially got scared.Before I ever heard of Venusian Arts or Charisma Arts, I ALWAYS HAD 2 DO THINGS on my OWN....4 real, This is what Iam trying to say, it was in me too be social and not awkward, it was all me 2 get my first lay when I was 15, it was me 2 get where I am today 100% by my self.."LOOK""" , we all need 2 learn new things everyday of our lives, and live each day of our lives 2 learn..Having this Network, and tech, is no different than when your mommy taught you how to wipe your ass.."""BE A MAN "" KNOW WHO YOU ARE"" Stick 2 your own"" Believe in yourself,to achieve 4 yourself.""...........Beautiful woman is just a face and you should think this when making an approach..I always do this, and I always use this same outlook when Iam doing my job as a business man.If you just think for a bit about what I am saying , than it will make alot of sense.When I approach a woman of any stature I look at them as if they are only people, and would never show them fear,(even if I was), because people will sense it and will use it against you(me)..So!!, my # 1 RULE is to always look at them strait in the eyes when I start a conversation, to get my own fear under control , and theirs the same.This will also show that you are a man & have alot of control..(People respect it )and also listen the moment you have calamity and are assertive ..You have 2 find away to control your limiting beliefs about interaction & approach , try to use fear as a tool to make you want to fight your way into being a better person..You have one life to live, so live it like its the last day, and learn like its the first day your born....___________________________________________________________________________Try looking at some in the eyes when you approach them, and just ask them something common !ex: ( "Hear about that talk about the Mats Sundin trade ???) no, hell never mind, " )" Take it easy Bud !if man or girl..This is unexpected and can catch anyone of guard by saying Bud", & and will DHV into another conversation..Either way !, this will make the indifference and show that you can control your fear and theirs just by saying one word..(((( BUD ))))........Even on woman...Peace 2 everyoneChin up boys!Be proud ..Cheers !!! .Try and think about those days when you were young and full of adventure ?Try to put yourself in that mind set again ??GOOD LUCK........ FAILSAFE..

Weird day 4 me .Its really funny how things can happen when you least expect them..True Story !!!Today I have been doing my usual work for my photography company I own and every day I go to the same coffee shop for breakfest..Well too make a long story short I kinda open a 1set with a cheezy Ross Jeffries s drawing opener!!I noticed her sitting there by her self across from me and she was really hot so I did what I think I do best and with out thinking I get in a chat..I drew on a napkin of a woman stick person, and then turned to her and said ;"Excuse me " , she looked and I held the picture up so see can see an said;Your beauty has inspired me 2 an interest in higher art" !!!She looked at it and noticed that I wrote underneath the stick figure ;"Somewhat hot Girl in Coffee shop/08"..I know this is not something I wold usually do and I remember this from somthang I read awhile ago, but it worked and we talked 4 1 hour and Iam going too hook up with her tonight.."Holy Shiat"""!Peace 2 everyone FailsafeP.S. There is still more too this than that ugly opener ..I still had to create a connection...

Well,It's an obvious about the 3 SECOND RULE, and all that nerve racking "SHIAT" about approach & not standing in a corner, look confident and assured, move 2 mingle Etc....____________________________Before I ever approach and none of you people have 2 take me 4 REAL'.-I always try 2 get in a fun state, Plan ahead, no a few openers, have a good routine, be a good listener, make sure that in any approach (I take this the most important weapon I have as a secret chick "picker-upper".) is RAPPORT ... Thats right !RAPPORT...._____________________________This will show you are confident and not desperate .AFC..Etc...---------------------------------------------------Example;1st - 3 SECOND RULE2nd- Approach3rd- (open the 2 set) with 1st Girl = Hey ! Than look at the second one and comment on some thing she is wearing),2nd Girl = Love your shoes !Look at the 1st girl quickly ) & say ?1st Girl= Not 2 be that same old guy who hits on you at the Bar !(Stop 4 3 seconds and look strait into her eyes) SAY== Yea !!! I am that guy .. My name is @#$%^#@ What's yours ? Are you going to intro me 2 your friend? It's the polite thing 2 do ????_________________________________Okay this is were it is your time not 2 screw things up !!!ONLY 5 seconds..Remember,Transition is a skill that brings the conversation to a place where you can attract her instead of taking the unproductive route of asking questions about herself..(That is Comfort building & that is next -5 min or less)________________________________Continued from last paragraph..Shake Girl#1 than #2 and say, = You can dress her up but you can't take her any were !!Now !Get in a talking stateGet between them And say.. = Look I can only stay 4 a moment and I really want 2 get back 2 mingling And try the "BEST FRIEND" routine....CheersPeace 2 all Failsafe..............

All HB10's are never hit on !!"That's right",Its your time to make sure she's receiving this attention.The 10's are some of the loneliest people!So the moment you tell yourself you cant do it", is the moment you have convinced yourself you cant!''...If you are RELAXED & INTERESTING then that is all you to be.Have a plan and a few openers & just try 2 be yourself.All 2 gain and Nothing 2 lose..(you still have Palm-a-la)PeaceFailsafe..