Well,It's an obvious about the 3 SECOND RULE, and all that nerve racking "SHIAT" about approach & not standing in a corner, look confident and assured, move 2 mingle Etc....____________________________Before I ever approach and none of you people have 2 take me 4 REAL'.-I always try 2 get in a fun state, Plan ahead, no a few openers, have a good routine, be a good listener, make sure that in any approach (I take this the most important weapon I have as a secret chick "picker-upper".) is RAPPORT ... Thats right !RAPPORT...._____________________________This will show you are confident and not desperate .AFC..Etc...---------------------------------------------------Example;1st - 3 SECOND RULE2nd- Approach3rd- (open the 2 set) with 1st Girl = Hey ! Than look at the second one and comment on some thing she is wearing),2nd Girl = Love your shoes !Look at the 1st girl quickly ) & say ?1st Girl= Not 2 be that same old guy who hits on you at the Bar !(Stop 4 3 seconds and look strait into her eyes) SAY== Yea !!! I am that guy .. My name is @#$%^#@ What's yours ? Are you going to intro me 2 your friend? It's the polite thing 2 do ????_________________________________Okay this is were it is your time not 2 screw things up !!!ONLY 5 seconds..Remember,Transition is a skill that brings the conversation to a place where you can attract her instead of taking the unproductive route of asking questions about herself..(That is Comfort building & that is next -5 min or less)________________________________Continued from last paragraph..Shake Girl#1 than #2 and say, = You can dress her up but you can't take her any were !!Now !Get in a talking stateGet between them And say.. = Look I can only stay 4 a moment and I really want 2 get back 2 mingling And try the "BEST FRIEND" routine....CheersPeace 2 all Failsafe..............