Approach and chat is not really a big fear..People converse some how, one way or another,They have to if they need to get some where in their everyday lives!!I have just sat back today and asked my self why this is, and why is fear a big factor in approach?(Beauty) (Sexy) ( Very attractive women)!"Yep""", this is the reason to fear..Fine" thats all good but I remember a time that I was never afraid of any one..Its only the days and times when I had bad experiences growing up that I socially got scared.Before I ever heard of Venusian Arts or Charisma Arts, I ALWAYS HAD 2 DO THINGS on my OWN....4 real, This is what Iam trying to say, it was in me too be social and not awkward, it was all me 2 get my first lay when I was 15, it was me 2 get where I am today 100% by my self.."LOOK""" , we all need 2 learn new things everyday of our lives, and live each day of our lives 2 learn..Having this Network, and tech, is no different than when your mommy taught you how to wipe your ass.."""BE A MAN "" KNOW WHO YOU ARE"" Stick 2 your own"" Believe in yourself,to achieve 4 yourself.""...........Beautiful woman is just a face and you should think this when making an approach..I always do this, and I always use this same outlook when Iam doing my job as a business man.If you just think for a bit about what I am saying , than it will make alot of sense.When I approach a woman of any stature I look at them as if they are only people, and would never show them fear,(even if I was), because people will sense it and will use it against you(me)..So!!, my # 1 RULE is to always look at them strait in the eyes when I start a conversation, to get my own fear under control , and theirs the same.This will also show that you are a man & have alot of control..(People respect it )and also listen the moment you have calamity and are assertive ..You have 2 find away to control your limiting beliefs about interaction & approach , try to use fear as a tool to make you want to fight your way into being a better person..You have one life to live, so live it like its the last day, and learn like its the first day your born....___________________________________________________________________________Try looking at some in the eyes when you approach them, and just ask them something common !ex: ( "Hear about that talk about the Mats Sundin trade ???) no, hell never mind, " )" Take it easy Bud !if man or girl..This is unexpected and can catch anyone of guard by saying Bud", & and will DHV into another conversation..Either way !, this will make the indifference and show that you can control your fear and theirs just by saying one word..(((( BUD ))))........Even on woman...Peace 2 everyoneChin up boys!Be proud ..Cheers !!! .Try and think about those days when you were young and full of adventure ?Try to put yourself in that mind set again ??GOOD LUCK........ FAILSAFE..