Having a high sex drive can make your self feel a little more attractive. Feeling attractive in a slightly different way,than your normal self is good energy. Not only would be noticing a difference in your body language, but your Charisma level will also feel more confident. Having a higher sex drive can make one feel a little more of a worker than a lazy bone . I am not saying to force " Blue Balls " or make your self sick in any way ! I am suggesting the idea of building a " Sexual Energy " that only woman can sense - because it is a natural and animal instinct that was given to them. Now ! this dose not mean you will have some kind of " Super Pheromone " or if you stand by them and let the ladies take a" wiff " of you, they will fall on your lap. No ! this will only help a energy that they will notice subconsciously about you when you speak to them. Almost like a " Ora " or your wearing a really nice pair of sunglasses and they have too see your eyes .. To be a PLAYER - it is very important to display a sexual energy wile you converse naturally in a proper manner.PLAYERS believe in being comfortable and confident in them selves .. PLAYERS also know how to display a body language that most AFC's wish to possess . Secret is that if you calculate " 3 Days " before you hit the Clubs or social gathering, you have to promise yourself you will not " Masturbate " until the 3rd night ends.. Not only would this give you a better orgasm, but it will also give something to think about after you have met woman that night. When you can control your energy and tension, you can learn quicker and more effectively in this " State of Mind ".. Feeling that the problem is you seeing it in a hole new way and you play this indifference perfectly good, than you can see your faults for what they are.. Don't ever take this personal ! You really want to find a way to control your attractiveness . " All to gain & nothing to lose ".. Remember this , " Depending on where the girl is in her life, reflects on you in hers ".. Don't sweat it ! this is a PLAYERS way of learning control . It is very unhealthy for you to stress and think PUA 24/7 . Only think 3 days before you plan to go out. And I mean only " Think About It " ..! Stressing 24/7 is just a "Self Infliction " of abuse, and thats just going to make AFC actions win your hart over.. Now ! if you can visualize yourself trying this exercise and believing that actions speak louder than words, than you will be on a better path of feeling more ATTRACTIVE..