Hey all, I've just finished reading the book Your Erroneous Zones of the author Wayne Dyer. It is a fantastic book that helps everyone's inner game who reads it to evolve to an new level. It focuses on you inner game that is present in all aspects of life, not just your sex life. I know it is on the market for a long time, but I am sure that a lot of guys never heard of this book.

I came to my decision to buy this book when I saw one of David Deanglo's videos. This book focuses on your value as a person. But the difference is, that your value does not depend on the opinions of others. That is bullshit. I would have never ever made that statement if I didn't read and understand this book.

In the actual moment you read this, you have a certain value. By recognizing that you cannot change the value before the change happens or doing anything that may add value (learning because of mistakes), you must accept your self who you are before changing. By doing this you don't panic when the girl does something. Because you have accepted your self in the actual moment, so it is impossible to panic about what she says. In the beginning of the book, it focuses on accepting your self and it gives you exercises for learning how to do that.

When people aren't good with something, haven't accepted that they aren't good in something and they relate value to other persons' opinions, they avoid doing something like approaching. But if you accept your self, the things you aren't good at and don't relate your value to how other act to you, than why the hell would you care.

I know that this review/brief summary won't give you the insight that the book can. So the only advice I can give you, is to read it. Don't expect to be superman in an instant, because you first have to internalize the ideas into your mindset as I am doing in the "actual moment". But it will definitely benefit your inner game. 

P.S. Read feel the fear, and do it anyway of the author Susan Jeffers. Dutch title of this book: Niet durven, toch doen.