Away from the Game. Time to return approaching.
Dec. 29, 2007 4:31 AM - [ post comment ] Today I decided to go to the mall to get back in the swing of things. I Won't lie, I was nervous as hell despite the approaching I did in the past. When i arrive there, i take 2 minutes to relax due to the amount of fear i'm feeling.
So then i walk inside to Sears first, and see a long curly haired black haired latina who looked my age. When i spot her, she notices me. I have this big smile on my face and she smiles. I go up to her, and say, "I like you....I want to meet you". She has a pseudo-weireded out look for a second, but then says no thanks with a polite smile.
I know exactly the reason i got rejected. My face looked nervous and i talked too fast. For a while, i'm just looking around to find other targets. But mysteriously, as im walking out of Sears, that same girl notices me and is looking at me with more positive eye contac than before...but i tried to fool myself this time. I could tell that my face came across as nervous and too serious.
Some female latinas were giving me eye contact when walking by...but i was intimidated that they were in groups(I'm focusing on lone wolfs for now to get things off). So then the second girl i see is at a female clothing store. I wasn't sure if she worked at the store or not but i decide to go for it anyways. As she's checking out clothes, i turn her around and tell her, "I find you gorgeous and would like to talk to you" In my mind i found her attractive looking, but i don't think i really found her gorgeous(She looked hotter with her back turned until i saw her face).
She doesn't really respond at all and continues to look at clothes. I decide to persist further and i ask her name. We make introductions and then she continues what she's doing. I was at a blank/lost for words as i believed it was a lost cause and then she asks, "Can i help you?"<just being polite as she worked there> I tell her thats ok...that i just wanted to meet her and leave. I'm just walking in different stores to cease my nervousness looking at different items.
I see more women i want to approach(4 more i really did find attractive) but i pussied out, eventho i didn't "FEEL" AA...was just my mind still somewhat affected from not getting a positive response. I left feeling like i should've done more but i didn't feel bad at myself because i know that i'll do much better next time.
I feel more relaxed in terms of being around the mall a bit more, so I'm going to the mall again tomorrow...and definitely do more approaches. I prefer doing solo game, but hey...it won't hurt if im with a couple of guys.
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