Basically, it's like Babe Ruth pointing to the center field bleachers during game 3 of the 1932 World Series. You tell the girl that you will do ____, and she does not have a say in it. You will have her in your bed by the end of the night, and she's going to watch it happen over the course of the evening. If I'm opening a girl at a bar (for research purposes only, gentlemen,) I'll tell her that she will be making out with me in the corner over there in 45 minutes. I'll even fucking point while I'm calling it. It's incredibly sexy. Of course, she'll deny it and even try to prove you wrong... but if you've consciously planted that seed and you allow it to ferment with continual non-verbals and a dash of NLP... she's going to be thinking about you in that way the entire night. It germinates and builds within her to the point where she will comply with what you've stated. It plays on women's obsession with things having a destiny or thinking that things are supposed to happen... it's fantasy that you are making them a part of. This takes balls, but when it works... IT WORKS. I use it for long term projects... not once has it failed me.