The Microcosm Attraction Theory. When a woman is put into a sub-community (i.e. the workplace, class, etc.) attraction plays funky tricks on her. She will become attracted to the best possible option around. Now, she may not have played with the idea of connecting with this person unless they had been sectioned off into the smaller pool, but the attraction is real (even if she rationally acknowledges the fact that she would not be interested in this person if they werent in the subculture... like we all know... attraction is not a choice.) The microcosm attraction effect happens due to a mixture of evolution and boredom.