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The Response Part 2
Mar. 30, 2008 5:25 PM - [ post comment ] Let's review part one.. "Bits" and "Tasks" are two inseparable laws of nature. We have the foundation of time always set in stone. 24 hours is the equivalent to one day. 60 seconds will always be equal to one minute. If the separation of time periods would be the "bit" then the "Task" itself would be the action taking place in each "bit.
Now that we have defined what a bit and a task is. I then questioned the idea of using bits to separate each negative thought and time in your life. Basically completely keeping what is in the past to stay in the past. If you live life as if you are continuously are in one bit, it is no wonder why us men have so many issues with women! We may be forgiving to our guy friends, but no matter the mind does not let go of what that has happened in the past. This is why "Bits" are so crucial to controlling our current state of mind. Make a deal with yourself to always life life as it is always a new bit. Never let anything bring you down, and when you get the urge you just create a new bit and then forget about it.
The "Task" can also be pretty crucial. The "Task" in each bit would be your mindset (What you focus on and how you think and feel). In order to completely change over from bit to bit you must always change your mindset and how you feel about each issue. Otherwise you will never fully divide each bit and you will create horrible problems for yourself in the future. I gave you a great example of the women on Oprah who had a glass of wine and toasted her father's death who she was very close to. She let go on something that most people would mourn and mourn about for too long. Life is too short to constantly mourn. Sadly, everyone dies and everyone will die eventually. You just have to live life like it is a new bit and love it.
Since I have finished summarizing part one. Now to the good stuff.. I promised you that I was going to apply this to pickup and social interaction. In order to fully know what goes into each pickup, I would ask all of you if you have not already to read The Mystery Method. Mystery perfectly turns what most men thought to be impossible into a very possible science. If you were to go to page 63, you would be looking at a chart. He calls it the M3 Model. He divided each section of game into three main laws of all game: Attract, Comfort, Seduce. In each of these three main pieces he comes up with a total of nine phases all together (A1, A2, A3, C1, C2, C3, S1, S2, S3) to define in more depth what each of the main pieces to the structure of game is. Well guess what he just did folks! He created "bits"! Hmm.. I wonder how many other great pickup artists such as Mystery used "bits" to help them create success for themselves and countless other men..
Now, I will not rewrite his method down for you guys because I want to be original. Also, because I do not want to perfectly define something that could technically take hours, days, weeks, rarely months for the average joe such as myself. I believe that social interaction is exactly what it is, social interaction. It is not nine phases, in my opinion. I believe that though he is very specific as to why each of the nine phases are there. I do not see myself as counting off in my head each phase down as it happens. They are always going to be there in every single interaction in pickup, but as the teacher in my acting book says about too many bits and tasks and how if you divide each whole into a hundred bits then you will lose sight of the whole and instead bit 34-56 instead of bit 2-3. Every "bit" must be able to give meaning to the whole. Each bit is a piece of the whole.
How can I apply bits and tasks to women now? Simple. Dividing game into three simple pieces: Introduction/Communication/Finish. Just like with Mystery's model, but instead treat each as an individual of the whole. Like the leaves on a four leaf clover. You see, if I was to get any deeper as Mystery has then I would lose sight of what I am trying to accomplish and instead become bored. Each interaction should each have life and energy pouring out of it. That is where the "connection" comes from.
If you focus on communication when your in your introduction bit then your attraction bit will become hazed and it will not appear as strong. You must always focus on the bit, but think of it no little then just that. I changed the words around from the mystery model, because I believe that if you were to think of meeting a girl as attraction and focus yourself in attracting her you will lose sight of the whole idea of attraction. Attraction, as David DeAngelo always says, is not a choice. You cannot force it, it is either there or it is not, but you can build it like any muscle with the right training. Attraction is just what happens, it is not to be focused on except for training outside the field.
Anyways, now that we have defined the only bits you need in pickup, how about we now focus on the most important thing for each of these bits, the task. We will use the same task as what we have for part one, changing our mindset. How can we change the mindset? Remember, how I talked of the "Given Circumstances"? The Given Circumstances being what has taken place both externally and internally in the past leading up to the moment. Well until you can perfectly master attraction and pickup and social dynamics on your own, then why not just change up your given circumstances. I am not saying to lie. Still be the man you are, but spice it up a little. You are still _(Insert Name Here)_, but your background story is different and you become your dream self, personality wise of course. Here's an example:
"You are ______ who is extremely confident, funny, and a fun guy. You enjoy adventure and women who excite you. You just finished watching something funny and you cannot get it off of your mind. You see a beautiful woman who you just feel like talking to and get it off your mind and get something else into your mind. All at the same time you want to meet someone new, not caring of the outcome."
The teacher in my book always said to never work for the result, but for the action. This is crucial to everything in pickup. Create a deep story, and just have fun with it. To help with this new personality, do what the guys at pickuppodcast.com always say to do just before going out.. Watch a funny youtube video or movie to get you in the fun and funny mood whether you go out with some guys or not. You can even keep the same usual given circumstances and just spice them up enough to your liking.
I would get into more about this, but honestly there is nothing more to get into. Just remember these things in addition to everything else I have taught. You must believe in what you are doing, if you truly do then it will happen for you. That is the difference between fake and real confidence. Those who fake it show no belief in what they do. Also, this is NOT a method. This is a teaching tool to accompany you in any and every single method given to you. Finally, just make sure you have fun just for the sake of having fun. That's what pickup is all about, not about sleeping with women, but just for having a good time and being social. This should never be a bore or a burden, if you use my words, you can bring so much success to yourself. Even more then what you would have with the perfect method.
The Three Keys for Success: Be Grateful, Be Positive, Be Paitent.
The Secret: "Thought is Reality!"
Use "Bits" and "Tasks" to your advantage!
Have Fun With It!
Never Lose Sight of the Goal!
Never Work for the Result, But Instead For The Action!
"BELIEVE 2 ACHIEVE!" - Failsafe summarized "The Answer" as meaning
My Version of the M3 Model: Introduction/Communication/Finish (Success)
This is a multipurpose belief system! Use what I have taught you in everything you do including personal issues and with pickup!
The Answer + The Response 1&2 = True Success
Peace and Good Luck!
aleams
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