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Quick update after month+
Jun. 3, 2008 10:51 PM - [ post comment ]
So I haven't done as much in the past month/month and a half, but I'm going to start doing it again more often. I was able to notice a significant difference in my skills after only a couple weeks of going out 5 times a week doing just 5 approaches. I've actually started up again recently, doing about 4 or 5 approaches a few times a week, randomly, and I'm having as great time as ever. This is not to say that my approaches are perfect or even good, but I'm learning nonetheless. Actually, I'm not really looking for results anyways... which maybe I should a little more, as far as having a goal (e.g. fucking her), but I definitely do have the goal. It's more of not being overly concerned with my results and instead focusing on simply the ACT of approaching and escalating until I pull or get blown out... (which I should be more consisitent on. It's so easy to bale out after an initial good reaction, God!) Ok, note to self right here right now: no more baling out. If I can't take it farther right there, I'll at least go for the number close. Basically, I'll go as far as I can before I close or get blown out.

A couple quick things:
-Girls that are shyer, LOVE it when you tell them that they're adorable. This might be a common thing, but it definitely has to be done AFTER initial attraction. Ok, like, if she's blushing and you've only said a couple sentences (and she really is cute, ok... that's important...) I just might let her know that I think she's absolutely adorable.
-Day game approach: if she's farther away, make sure you qualify her before you go in closer to her. Either that or she qualifies herself... introducing yourself works well here as a way to get closer if you've started off too far away. I'm still learning about distance here... how far away to stand, how close I can get how soon. Basically, I'm willing to really screw this up and just try out TONS of different stuff, so I can see what works best.
-Probably the most important step you can take to learning this game is to be willing to screw up. And be willing to screw up A LOT. Just accepting that almost NO ONE is good at this (and the ones who are make big bucks from teaching it), so it's all right to allow yourself to make mistakes. There's no such thing as a perfect approach anyways... There's never a PERFECT moment. You make the moment perfect yourself. You're in control. I'm in control. I'm the man. She's lucky I came over to talk to her. Why? Because I'm a dedicated, passionate, ambitious man who is willing to mess up and make mistakes in order to learn how to be the best. And I will be the best. No matter what it takes. What? She doesn't want the best? Ok. Next.
-Main thing I want to focus on is how far away I'm standing, moving up closer... I think this is going to be HUGE once I get it handled. But right now it's something I'm not completely comfortable with, so what does that mean? I'm going to figure it out by doing it a lot and becoming comfortable with it.

Guys, most pick up artists will try and sell you on their stuff, which is cool, and I've benefited a freaking TON from their info, but a lot of these guys don't stress enough how important it is to just get the fuck off the sofa, off the computer chair, off the bed, whatever it is, and just fucking go for it. Just do whatever the fuck it takes until you're the fucking man you've always wanted to be and known that you can be. I'm doing it now. I started off at a HORRIBLE starting point. I thought I was ugly even... really, I was just so nice and shy and didn't know how to stand up for what I believed in (e.g. myself)... but like anything else in life, it just takes practice. And if you want to get good, it takes a LOT of practice.

So, as one of my most respected Gurus says:

Get out there and meet some women.

That's what I'm doing.

5 a fucking day.

Are you part of the 5 a day program?

A Fuck a day keeps the doctor away. ...as long as you use a glove.

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