You gotta love conjuring up that memory of the first time you badly struck out with a girl in a public place. I remember going up to the most beautiful girl in the room and saying "hi, I'm Eric" with my shoulders tense and hand in the "hand shake" position. Looking back I am grateful that she was drunk enough to have the courage to look me in the eyes and say "I think you need to talk to someone else". Man did I feel like shit. Daniel Goleman in his books Emotional Intelligence and Social Intelligence gives the explanation for my physiological response to such a psychological blow. Fortunately I had my friend vodka in a cup and the other drunk Staten Island boys to cheer me up by calling her a skank. Boy o' boy did I learn from that girl and my friends. I wanted to be different from all the guys at that party with perfectly gel'd hair, heavy Staten Island accent, Cool Water cologne and Armani shirt. It wasn't in my nature to chase girls with hopes of blowjobs from a skank in the back of my boy's Lexus. So I watched chick flicks. I studied the guys in the movies that girls want over the Alpha-Male.
    My favorite PUA was Marlon Brando as "Sky Masterson" in Guys and Dolls (the movie of the musical). He has a line (yes in a song) "yeah, Chemistry" that really influenced my life. The line in context of the song speaks about how we'll know when that special someone comes  along. Now Sky Masterson was in no way a one gal kinda guy but he had this chemistry theory  that applied to his entire life. Reminiscent of Don Corleone in the God Father, Brando flexed his social muscle seemingly effortlessly. People are drawn to them. Even the audience saw such dirty and low characters to be so undeniably addictive. What power these characters had. I found something all my goomba friends with all the skanks they could handle didn't have. To finish this paragraph in proper fashion I have to dedicate one sentence to Chazz Palminteri and  A Bronx Tale. The difference between Sonny LoSpeccio; the mob boss, and Lorenzo Anello; the buss driver, show the true dichotomy of my friends and I. "Is it better to be Loved or Feared?". The age old Machiavellian question. Sonny (Chazz) is feared, Lorenzo (DeNiro) is Loved. While people look up to Sonny, he is respected because of fear. No one really knows him or even feels an appreciation for him. Lorenzo, the civil servant is low on the social totem pole but he has a family and the love and respect of all people in his neighborhood. The same love and respect given to Sky and Don Corleone for the same reason. Chemistry.
    Why chemistry? Getting back to Daniel Goleman and his summation of social psychology, every emotion that we receive from another person can be defined as an empathetic response. Scientifically empathy can been seen as a psychological and physiological response to another person's physiology or psychological state. The word's Greek routes "εμπ¬θεια transliterated as empatheia, meaning "physical affection, partiality" - wikipedia. It has been found that even the Ph balance of  people's skin will start to match when they are in a state of empathy. There is great power in "Chemistry".
    I have modeled my life and molded my interpretation of the "Venusian Arts" with Chemistry.  Future blogs will outline my theories, thoughts, trials, failures, successes, adaptation and development of  Chemistry or Death.

- eric

P.S. I am not selling nor will I ever sell anything related to this Method. I have no website dedicated to this Method.

Future Topics:
- Developing your own REAL openers
- Weeding out the bad ones (not all hot girls are hot)
- The 30-second storytelling technique
- Old Couples
- Boyfriend theory
- MLTR redefined
- to DVH, or not to DHV? A stupid question.
- The true PUA lifestyle
- The next dimension of NLP
- True friends
- Show her you're attracted
- Show her you're turned on
- Piss him off